Re: Leukemia
hey pomai, i'm so sorry to hear the news about your father. my aunt just passed away last week and in her case, it wasn't because of the cancer that she was battling with. a massive heart attack left her clinging to life with all kinds of tubes/machines attached to her body. she was heavily sedated cuz the docs didn't want her to move. a few days after the attack, they reduced the amount of meds and thankfully she had enough of a presence to be able to communicate with a nod or by blinking her eyes. but this window of opportunity was very brief. they had to put her under again cuz of the pain, etc. the next time they let her come out of this cloud of meds, they asked her if she wanted them to let her go cuz that's what her living will requested and she said yes. i can't imagine how hard it was for her family to ask the doc to pull the plug but they respected her wishes and thankfully, they had a brief time when they could say their goodbyes. naturally, it's a situation that no one would wish for, but they were fortunate that they had a chance to say their goodbyes. moreover, she was fortunate that she was aware of the love in that room. she was with her family and she could move on knowing that she was deeply loved.
i'm sure your dad knew that he was deeply loved by his family, too. take care pomai.
hey pomai, i'm so sorry to hear the news about your father. my aunt just passed away last week and in her case, it wasn't because of the cancer that she was battling with. a massive heart attack left her clinging to life with all kinds of tubes/machines attached to her body. she was heavily sedated cuz the docs didn't want her to move. a few days after the attack, they reduced the amount of meds and thankfully she had enough of a presence to be able to communicate with a nod or by blinking her eyes. but this window of opportunity was very brief. they had to put her under again cuz of the pain, etc. the next time they let her come out of this cloud of meds, they asked her if she wanted them to let her go cuz that's what her living will requested and she said yes. i can't imagine how hard it was for her family to ask the doc to pull the plug but they respected her wishes and thankfully, they had a brief time when they could say their goodbyes. naturally, it's a situation that no one would wish for, but they were fortunate that they had a chance to say their goodbyes. moreover, she was fortunate that she was aware of the love in that room. she was with her family and she could move on knowing that she was deeply loved.
i'm sure your dad knew that he was deeply loved by his family, too. take care pomai.
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